A
female
age
26-29,
*isturbed Princess
writes:ok i got 2 problems here.problem #1.ok i just got with this new guy iv been with him for about a week and 3days now... his totally sweet and all but i hear rumours his dating me for a dare by random kids at school.... i spoke to him bout it he said his not but the rumours stopped and i dont know if he is just trying to win my heart over then totally kill my inside... his a bit of a fridget but i dont really care if he is. his nice n sweet n funny i get along with him better then i do with my best friends.i called his house phone the other night to talk to him his mother answerd n ask y i have been calling him alot latley i explain to her that im his girlfriend and she went all motherly and yea did the highpitch sigh of happiness it was kinda creepy but anyway he came upto me the next day and asked y i told his mum about us and i replied that i didnt know that she didnt know because he didnt want her to go all weird like some mothers do.. my mother didnt really care that im dating him. i dont think he wants me to meet his mother now... his mother is kinda awesome on the phone she seems like an average kind of parent.at school theres this thing called a day light rule we arnt even aloud to hug but we hold hands anyway we havnt really gotten detentions for it we just get told to stop holding hands. at school is th eonly time i really get to see him and we arnt in any class's together wich personally i think is a good thing.but the thing about seeing him i dont know what to do really i want to see him more often but my mother doesnt really trust me because of my sisters one had a baby at 16 and the other one started having sex at 13 and im turning 14 so im in the range where she doesnt trust me much.. iv told her i wouldnt do anything with a guy cus i only started kissing this year and i dont kiss the guy im with atm.plus personally i think that doing stuff like having sex underage is a bad thing even with protection because you could still turn out pregnant and i wouldnt have an abortion and i wouldnt want to drop out of school cus i need a good education to become a lawyer or something like that.i dont know how to get her trust.problem #2we moved in with my sisters(lets call her JS) best friends(lets call her JN ) family because my mother is best friends with "JN"s mum.and just the other day. jenny and her mother had a huge argument and "JN" packed her bags and JS went with and i want JS back she is important to me and JN has been abusing me and saying its all my fualt and stuff like that when i know it isnt and i just want to know how to get her to stop like do i just let it drop off or be brave step up and say something to JN about it?i want my sister to be my best friend again.sorry bout the length..please help!
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reader, niki20  +, writes (21 April 2009):
 to answer q1 just give her time.. prove to her you arent sexually active and she will come around and be proud of you for not following in their footsteps. q2 well just let her go off, she seems like she needs to cool down. just like your mum shell come around, it may take her a while, but patience is a virtue.
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