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*rittany1230
writes:All the time I find pics of half naked girls on my boyfriends computer, and I tell him I don't like it and it just keeps making me feel sad and bad about myself, what else should I do to make myself feel better? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 First you talk to him and let him umderstand that you are not comportable seeing this half naked pictures in HIS computer. See what is he going to do. If he dont do anything about it, if he just ignore what you said. Then there is another option. I think every body has a privacy, either its our boyfrien or husband. and this is HIS computer, so i think its ok that WE dont go to the computer of our partner. Man sometimes like to have their little privacy and if we insist going into it then they will think we are jealous and curious and jealousy is not a good idea to have when we are in the relationship. normally its pusshes the partner to do more things which we really dont like. So let them have their freedom and let them get tired of it, untill they look straight only to YOU. Read the book mars and venus, maybe it will give you a little tip. anyway good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010): Only half naked?
What sort of guy is this anyway? Never trust a man who doesn't like to watch porn. Ever.
Look, if it bothers you, tell him to be more discreet about it as it makes you feel a bit insecure.
You'll never stop a guy watching porn. Any self-respecting guy has been watching porn since he was 12. And by adult-hood it is firmly programmed into us.
As long as he isn't letting anything interfere with your relationship and sexual exploits, what have you to be jealous of? Pixels on a screen?
Flynn 24
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reader, meltedfire13  +, writes (13 March 2010):
whats he say when you tell him? maybe put up half naked pics of guys all over? lol
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