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writes:my dad re-married in august 2008. i hate my new stepmum. she is mean to me and everything! i tell my dad but he says that i'll just have to get used to her. but she is always talking about my weight and she thinks that i just want to have sex with a boy and i dont!!!!! just because she had children when she was 16 doesnt mean i will!!!!what do i do????? Reply to this Question
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reader, vamp-gal +, writes (24 October 2009):
 You should talk to your step-mother and tell her that the way she's treating you is unacceptable.She might not realize she's affecting you this way and if you talk to her about it she might stop all the unnecessary comments.You and your step-mother should talk and if you can't come to an agreement then you should at least agree to be civil for your fathers sake.But yeah, tell her that your weight shouldn't be an issue to her and that your not ready to have sex right now and that just because a lot of people our age do doesn't mean everyone does. She might be trying to look out for you in the same way 'cause really the only thing that ever gets talked about is how bad our generation is. But you should make her see that it's not right and not fair to judge you based on other peoples actions.If you've tried sit her down and try again and if she won't listen then it's her problem not yours.Good Luck!! Hope everything goes Ok =) xx
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reader, adamskidude +, writes (24 October 2009):
 Some people are just inherently nasty. It sounds like she feels she has to compete with you for your fathers attention and is being mean to you to try and make you want to leave home as soon as possible.She just wants your father to herself, dont let her winkthxbai ^^
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