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writes:So, I know this may sound weird and it is but I really don't like kissing. Like, I hate it. I don't even know if I can get over it? Anyone have this problem? Btw, I have a boyfriend now and this problem has been since my first boyfriend like 5 years ago.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): I just don't like the idea of spit. It just disgusts me. Thanks though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): My boyfriend wasn't too keen on it but I love kissing him. We compramised we just don't kiss with tounges because that isn't a big loss because it's just slobeery. we kiss with out mouths closed passionely or just give pecks on the cheek, forehead and nose and he loves it now. Give it a try you ma be different with this boyfriend.
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reader, supermum  +, writes (5 September 2011):
 Fear not. I hate kissing, and wont do anything more than a closed mouth pec. It is normal. But don't close yourself off forever. Sooner or later, you will find someone that you really, really, *want* to kiss. xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): Kissing may not necessary before sex but during sex it make you feel completely in sex
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reader, YouWish +, writes (5 September 2011):
 It's okay not to like it. I didn't like it at first until I came across a guy who really knew how to kiss. Then it was mind-blowing.
However, it's okay not to like it. Many germophobes hate it because of the spit-swapping aspect. Many others hate it because of the intimacy factor and still others because they find it awkward and slobbery.
You're okay not to like it, but I say keep an open mind about it, especially if you've only had 2 boyfriends. Each guy is different, that's for sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): Can you specify why you hate it? Does the other person have bad breath? Or a slimy tongue? Are you germaphobic? Do the guys just shove their tongues in your mouth and down your throat?Maybe you can start really slowly, just kiss gently, nibble each others lips a little...kiss with your mouths closed. He can stroke your hair, face, body...when you are turned on try just a little tongue and see how that feels. Just open your mouth a little bit and tease each other a bit.Hope this helps. I agree with catcher00, when a guy's a good kisser it makes all the difference in the world! Personally for me it's a very intimate act and I actually feel closer to the person from kissing and foreplay than I do from intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): I'm the same as you. I don't really like it either. I love sex but kissing isn't a big thing for me at all. I find it awkward and i hate the feeling of another persons tongue in my mouth. I actually try and avoid doing it as much as i can and i only really do full on kissing with tongues during sex because you kind of get carried away. Other than that i really don't like it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): Well, you just have to condition yourself. Go back in your mind and see WHAT it was that happened with your first boyfriend that was the catalyst... only then can you begin to formulate a way around it.It's the same with any irrational fears and doubts. Once you know the cause, then you can treat... and slowly adjusting yourself to it works wonders most of the time. I mean people drink coffee... and coffee tastes like freeze-dried cow dung.Flynn 24
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reader, catcher00 +, writes (5 September 2011):
I didn't like kissing until I found someone who was amazing at it.
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