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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 I agree with others here. However, the thought of my Mum and Dad having sex makes me cringe... They don't do that... They're my Mum and Dad.
Let alone hearing it!
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reader, Variety +, writes (23 January 2008):
 Make sure she knows you don't have a problem with her having a new man. It is just the sex noises you don't appreciate. Otherwise she might dismiss you for just being upset he is not your dad. x
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female
reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 You could buy a pair of ear plug or shift your bed to the other end of the room further away from that wall.
If it does not work, talk to your mum .
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): Maybe its time you moved out? Unfortunately sharing with any other adult (who is not your partner) will run the risk of hearing this kind of thing. Your Mum could show you a little more respect. Maybe say to her that could she tell you the next time her man is coming to stay over as you would prefer to sleep at a friend's house? Say you are finding it a bit 'uncomfortable'. Hopefully she will understand the point you are making.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): Put some music on, at reasonable volume, and sleep along with it. If your mother asks you why you are sleeping with the comp open, tell her the truth. That you want to sleep with this kind of noise, and not another. Make it sound like a joke so she doesn't feel really bad about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): Tell her what you have told us. She is human after all and i wouldnt like my kids to be able to hear me.
take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): I think you and your mom should sit and really talk.
She needs to know how you really feel.
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