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writes:hi im 14 almost 15 ive been with this boy 1 year 5 months and i really love him but today i had anal sex with him unprotected for my first time it hurt a bit and he stopped but i noticed that there was like some bleeding and he cummed in me too and im also worried that his cum went into mine and went into my vagina but i no what to do ill go and get the morning after pill tomorrow just incase but what do i do about my bum im aware of the std's we just got carried away whats the bleeding for?
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reader, SANNAH  +, writes (28 February 2011):
Dont have anal sex anymore.its dangerous unsafe sex.And It will damage your rectum.
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (23 July 2009):
Agree - your too young for sex, much less anal, which is advanced stuff, and something that you can get hurt (or killed) by doing. you can rip delicate tissue, and these rips can take weeks or months to heal. If you rip your spincter, you could re-rip it each time you take a dump. That could take forever to heal, and hurt each time you use the toilet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009): Wow. I'm really wondering why a girl as young as you is trying anal. Let alone sex at all. You need to use condoms and get on birth control. I'm guessing your mom knows you are having sex since you mentioned the morning after pill which you need to be 18 to purchase.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): thank your for this little tibdit of info. my girl was bleeding last night after our first time trying anal. i was only inside for 10 seconds or less when she said no more. i have already made an appt for STD test, and keep the good info rolling, as more young people (im 27) have sex younger and younger, they need to know the risks. thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): I think you are young to have any kind of sex because any STD or pregnancy can affect your whole future so think about that and dont rush things, regarding the bleeding it could be jast a cut in the anal mscle (sphincter) that is medicaly called ( a fissure) especialy if it is associated with pain during passing stool, it will heal with time if you didnt do it again ( beside all the bad things about anal sex).
REMEMBER ((( TRUE LOVE DOES NOT MEAN SEX ONLY )))
ALL THE BEST
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): Your too young to even be having sex
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reader, kittikat +, writes (26 May 2008):
 No, not so much less safe- I'm an STD counselor and I've been WAY too trained on the subject :-). Yes, anal sex can make you more susceptible to HIV and Hep B, two VERY, VERY dangerous diseases. Simply because blood and body fluids are exchanged. You should get tested for all STD's simply because you've been sexually active. As far as the bleeding, that's normal. The rectum is not made to stretch and flex that way, it will bleed until your body builds up scar tissue (that's why most anal porn stars don't bleed on camera). Many people have anal sex and some couldn't do without-"normal" or not. Just be aware that the muscle of the anus was not "built" for that kind of stretching and you can cause damage to the rectum if you're not careful. I guess I should say if he's not careful. Get tested for STD's: gonnorhea, chlamydia, HIV, Hep B and C, Syphillis, and of course if he ejaculated inside you and you happened to insert some of that ejaculate into your vagina, you should probably get a pregnancy test too. Isn't sex fun?! Seriously, the major diseases you need to worry about are HIV and the Hep's, A,B,C and E. There a a number of bacterial and viral pathogens that we don't have names for, so be prepared for something like that too. See a doctor, especially being so young- It's more important now than ever!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (26 May 2008):
 By the by, butt sex is a very, very, VERY easy way to pick up an STD's. Just because it's in the butt doesn't mean it's safe - in fact it's much less safe.
I would go to the doctor just in case.
Good luck, sweetness!
xx India
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 He probably tore your anal skin. This just happens. Normally when the anal canal is not relaxed enough for the penis to penetrate or the area was too dry and the skin will tear.If you can imagine uninflated ballons sticking together and then trying to seperate them and how they stick thats what happens.
So its best to use Lubrication, a condom (condoms come already lubricated), and best to get yourself on the pill.
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reader, s_princess  +, writes (25 May 2008):
sorry im no expert of this area. i hope youre ok now...but dont you think youre too young for even thinkin about sex?well, thats only my opinion.14. thats junior high. argh.you shouldnt be doing stuff like that, dont get mean, im just speaking my mind.
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reader, stoned cold steve austin +, writes (25 May 2008):
you should go to a doctor to check for stds and also i think he might have penetrated you to hard.it's quite a dangerous and risky type of intercourse and you should always use condoms when you do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Hey there... gosh, you are very young sweetheart, and while having sex is one thing, anal sex is a different matter. You need to get to a health care professional, and make sure that you are not torn internally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): How old is your boyfriend? Has he ever had sex before.
I don't think that you will get pregnant from this hunny. You are so younge to be trying such things. Please always wear a condom from now on. It's very important, it's for you own safety. It sounds like he just dove on in there. Sweety, this will have torn you a little. Before having anal sex for the first time you need to send quite some time poking at your anasuntil it stops contracting as soon as anything touches it. It sounds like you've got cut from the ammount of pressure he was putting on your anas. It should heal in time but it will probably hurt hurt when you go to the bathroom for a while. You should go to a doctor and have him examine you. It may be embarrassing, but it'll be worth making sure you're safe and unharmed.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (25 May 2008):
 ok i would go see your gp due to the fact you had bleeding..as you could of been to rough and maybe hurt your anal passage..dont be too worried rather be safe than sorry.. thats my opinion aphex
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