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I'm too tight. Help!

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Question - (25 May 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

How do i make my vagina larger?

I am 47 and even after using lubricant i still get very tight.

I have purchased dilators but it is embarrassing using them just before intercourse.

My vagina becomes very tight and i cannot have spontaneous sex.

I have been told that using oil and stretching using my fingers may help but not sure.

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A male reader, sintalation United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2008):

you need to get some lubrication and a variety of dildos and use them with your partner just before intercourse try sintalation .co.uk they stock a wide range of things have fun that is the main thing

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008):

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Many thanks to all the wonderful responses to my question,i shall use the advice given and let you know how things progress.

love

S

xxxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008):

Using your fingers could help.

It sounds like you are getting really tense. You need to really relax before having sex. The more worries you are the tighter you will become. Take your time. Spend a whole day with your man and every few hours try and have sex. Don't let him force it but just put a little pressure on your vagina. Hopefully you will relax and he will be able to get in a little further each time. Make sure that he does not force himself. It would be very sad if you got hurt. Make sure that he fingers you lots and you have lots of foreplay. This should aslo help you losen you up a little,

Good Luck,

Emivia. X

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (25 May 2008):

pepper27 agony auntThats ok hunny I hope you get this sorted and feel happier with yourself TAKE CARE XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (25 May 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntide say go see your doctor about this i know its embaressing but atleast they wil be able to shed some light on the subject, or maybe you just need more foreplay and relax as you could be really tense. thats my opinion aphex

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008):

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Hi Mandy Thank you so much for your response it helps so much to know people care.

Love. S.XXXXXXXXX

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (25 May 2008):

pepper27 agony auntHi Hunny

Using your fingers will help, Also buying 2 different size vibrators could help this situation with plenty of lube..Have you seen a doctor sweetheart as I would suggest you do and get some advice just to make sure everything is ok she/he will be able to help in so many ways that will ease your mind and help take away this emotional pain love..This is my advice to see a doctor..I do hope this helps sweetheart TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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