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*illy anderson
writes:hi split with girl over 3 months. 3 months of sheer hell with anxiety. was together 6 years. i really want her back. she dumped me. her feelings changed. she had lots change in her life recently and i know noone else involved. she struggles with break up bit too i think. she always initiates the contact between us roughly every few weeks. we met other day for first time in my new place. think she could see life changes i had made and foir the better. it was very civil meeting and she even held my hand at one point, cried and give me hugs leaving. she such sweet girl. would do anything for her back. told her we made right move to break up but taht i was keen to make fresh go if she feltwas ready. no pressure applied. just cahtted and caught up but got bit emotional at end.what im asking is for advice. what my next move. i dont want to push this out as i might push her away. was thinking leaving it week or so and asking her to call again. ive new place myself now which i know she was impressed with. just hard to know what to do? really want it but dont want to wreck it with me being desperate. been out loads and hangovers really melt my head. she not been out much. she no boy on scene, help??????????? Reply to this Question
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (27 February 2011):
 Keep working on yourself, stop drinking and try to move on with your life. If it's meant to be she'll come back to you. She knows how to reach you. But don't pin all your hopes on it.
It will take longer than 3 mths to get over a relationship that lasted 6 years. It sounds to me like she still cares for you and is just checking in on you to see how well you are recovering from the breakup. But if she hasn't changed her mind by now she probably never will. Sorry...
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