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writes:I had a one night stand with my friend's brother recently. It was over the Christmas period.I don't know him very well, but he comes to the pub with his brother each Christmas and over the course of a few years I have always chatted with him in the pub but nothing had ever happened before.Ever since that night he has added me as a friend on Facebook and has been chatting with me nearly every day.My question is, is he using Facebook as a way of trying to stay in contact with me because he wants something more to happen between us or am I reading too much into this? It's just that every other year I don't see him or speak with him from one Christmas to the next so this contact has surprised me.I believed at the time, that it would just be a one off but through this contact I am beginning to like him more. We haven't directly talked about that night other than the occasional little joke but now I'm wondering if I should bring it up? I'd prefer to talk about this to face but he lives quite far from me so this is the only contact we have. How can I approach the possibility of seeing him again?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 January 2009):
 I think if he's writing to you a lot and trying to chat you up, that suggests to me that he liked you and wants to see you again. Otherwise he wouldn't be seeking you out! There are lots of ways to ask if you can see him again - "I'm going to be in town on Tuesday, want to grab a drink or something?".
I think asking him to meet up with you will be super easy, because I'll bet he'll accept in a hot second!
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