A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I think i know the answer to this but i;d just like your outlook.I have a mate(i hope)who ive always been in love with. Seriously im not joking its got to much now and its killing me each and every day :'(Its just stuff has happened in the past, people thought we liked each other but we never spoke as people got involved and spread lies about us. Since then we got on so much better (as friends) he started coming out with me and some mates and stuff happened. He kept cuddling me and stuff, generally having fun and he even held my hand and when i hugged him goodbye one night he had his hands on my bum. I havent seen him for 2 months and i asked him to come out yesterday with us a particular night. he didnt reply and then he eventually replied earlier saying he had alot on and he couldnt this week. Which would be fair enough except i saw a message off a mate on his facebook asking is he wanted to go out with them on this same night and he was like yeah definately!. What hurts is not only the fact that so much has happened and that so many people are positive he likes me and hes to shy to say it (as he is very shy) but also i dont even think he wants to see me as a mate! Surely he wouldda missed me and wanted to come out??He aint someone that uses anyone, hes never had a gf, the one girl he did ask out purely used him, but i just dont understand now. He said sorry for not letting me know sooner but its obvious surely? he doesnt wanna see me :(
View related questions:
facebook, shy Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, kayla20  +, writes (18 March 2010):
 maybe he only sees you as a friend i wouldnt be hurt atleast he let you know he couldnt make it id say for now dont ask him out again let him do the chasing if his interested hel ask you out
A
female
reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 March 2010):
 It is obvious that you are not on his priority top list but only an option or somewhere way below.
If you are top on his list, he would have gone out with you or make time for you , no matter how busy or have other important events .
If he has unavoidable commitments on that day, he would have requested another alternative date.
It was very unfortunate that you saw that message in FB.
He is not that into you. I think it is time for you to let him go.Don't hold on to something that used to be there hoping it will come back.
People come in and walk out in our life. There is nothing we can do about that.
...............................
|
