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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I went out with a guy a year and a bit ago and was completly in love... I lost my virginity to him, anyway a week after he dumped me and went back to his ex girlfriend.. I never spoke or saw him again so it was have never really got over him.About 2 weeks ago now, I got an email from him asking how I was etc and saying he owed me an apology. We have been emailing and texting each other this time because I couldn't bring myself to call him.Anyway all my old feelings are back, also when we talk we're quite flirty with each other and yesterday we were arranging to meet, so I was quite open and asked what he wanted out of this, whether to be friends or more.Well I got an email of confessions this morning, starting with a massive apology. Then he went on to say that he has a girlfriend and she is 7 months pregnant with his child, but he said there relationship is bad at the moment.He said he really likes me, but we should just be friends for now and see what happens.I was so shocked by this... I don't know what to do because if he has a girlfriend and is starting a family I don't want to come between them, but at the same time I do really like him.Please help any advice is useful xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): Lay off, he is a liar & why do you even want him when he has a family with another woman? He's looking to cheat on her with you. You think he wouldn't do the same thing to you? Imagine if you were pregnant with his baby & you found out he was seeing some teenage girl behind your back. I can see why his relationship is bad because he doesn't know how to be faithful & honest!!
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (11 August 2007):
 If he isnt with her now, i dont see the rpboem as long as you're mates & happy with that.
If he is sill with the girl that is pregnant i would steer clear. Shes saddled with his baby & the last thing she needs as well as a new baby is her guys ex hanging in the background ready to pounce on him with the first argument or when hes been woken up once too many for night feeds. Be careful. Think about this baby. It hasnt asked to be born. Last thing your conscience should let you do is muscle in on its dad & destroy its future.
Sometimes life sucks but we have to be less selfish & consider others.
C xxxxx
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