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*tressed247
writes:People make fun of me because of my "sex life" but it's passst ;; and i've changed ! in my "lifetime" i've given head to 3 people i have had sex once, but it was in a church, i've gotten fingered 4 times.....and i know it sounds bad but recentley ive been going to church and i got saved ;; but they won't leave me alone these guys they tease and tease and tease. and i told them i've changed but they don't believe me....WHAT DO I DO? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 April 2008):
 It is time to leave them and find new friends.
You don't have to convince others that you have changed.
They can take it or leave it.
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reader, Stressed247 +, writes (25 April 2008):
Stressed247 is verified as being by the original poster of the question THANK YOU EVERYONE ! ! next time ;; i'm just going to smile and walk away. (: they'll get tired of it ;; hopefully!
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reader, bfly36 +, writes (24 April 2008):
 Go to a different church.
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reader, Susan Strict  +, writes (23 April 2008):
 Don't DO anything. Smile politely, and walk away. Actually, it makes no difference whether you have turned to church beliefs or not, or whether you have sex in any of its shapes or forms or not (apart from the fact that you're probably too young for it). The point is that it's no one's business except yours.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (23 April 2008):
 "A male reader, previasc96
Who cares if they don't believe you! Christ knows you and knows wat's in you're heart. You don't have to prove anything to them. Just seek the Lord and read Proverbs. If you want a boyfriend, God will send one your way!"
well she did have sex in a chruch.. can't say thats devine intervention but its certainly cool.
sweety ignore the bible bashing mumbo jumbo, and liv life and enjoy your self. who cares what people say. as you grow up you ain't gonna see any of those people again
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reader, DearSteve +, writes (23 April 2008):
 You can’t convince bullies not to bully you; it’s like trying to convince a chicken not to lay eggs. It’s want they do. You – or the things you have done in the past - are not the problem, they are. Cut them loose and stay away from them. Get involved with some activities at your church and meet some new like minded people. I admire you for having the courage to turn over a new leaf, but you don’t have to convince anybody that you’re a better person for it. You’re flavour of the month because you’re defending yourself. As soon as they see that you have stopped reciprocating, they’ll get bored and move on. If you find it tough, then talk to a responsible adult; a teacher or a parent. You can also seek advice from www.bullystoppers.com. I wish you the very best of luck.
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reader, previasc96 +, writes (23 April 2008):
Who cares if they don't believe you! Christ knows you and knows wat's in you're heart. You don't have to prove anything to them. Just seek the Lord and read Proverbs. If you want a boyfriend, God will send one your way!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): I truley feel for you, i had a bit of a 'reputation' a year or so ago even though I didn't do anything that bad either (sleeping with one guy doesn't make you a slut) and yeah it took a while for thing to die down. But believe me when i say that these boys will soon loose interest and to be honest they probably do know you've changed and are just teasing for the sake of teasing. Stay strong and i hope things work out soon
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