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writes:Heya, im 12 years old.I just wanted to know... Am i too young to decide to be bi-sexual? Because i like watching lesbian porn and, i know it semi-normal at my age to feel like this but as i said, do you guys think im too young to decide to be bi?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey - I'd just like to thank you for your replies - but I did post this question 3 years ago :P xx
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reader, natalieejanex +, writes (12 February 2011):
 you're not too young to be feeling this way or wanting to know and determine your sexuality. although i would say keep your options and your sexuality open until you start dating later on. don't limit yourself to just guys if you think you like girls too. try it out and see how you feel. but porn doesn't determine your sexuality. many, many straight people watch gay/lesbian porn and are perfectly straight and in a relationship with the opposite gender. and don't feel that its wrong to watch porn or any type of porn, its normal. i's also say to explore your body and get to know yourself and what turns you on and gets you off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): No I don't think your too young. Heck im one year younger and im bi but i must say that we are too young too watch porn. I did it once for a dare it was gross and exciting but thats not how i knew I was bi. I think you should wait more years cause just watching lez porn doesn't really mean anything I knew I was bi all my life I just didnt know there was a word for it at the time. Anyway give it more time to figure out what sex orientation you are.
- Anonymously
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reader, Angel Baby  +, writes (11 May 2008):
No you're not too young. That was about the age that I found out I was, and some of my friends as well. You can message me if you have any questions, I'd love to help in any way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks people =]
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reader, rorowes +, writes (24 April 2008):
 I know that in this day and age, sex is widely talked about and we should never underestimate what our youngsters are doing. Why at your age are you even thinking about sex is a puzzle to me. I was still playing with barbie when I was your age. Don't be in such a rush to grow up. You have a lifetime to think about sex, and your orientation.
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reader, Ahaham +, writes (24 April 2008):
No one is too young to decide there own life
just do whatever you want
there is no right or wrong in life
just do what makes yah feel good :]
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reader, Nibblet +, writes (24 April 2008):
 i dont think your too young to decide. some people know at a very young age, but i dont think it will be a good idea to tell everyone that you think your bi. enjoy the time you have now and explore your sexuality and find out for sure what you like.
Good Luck!!! message me if you want to talk.
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (23 April 2008):
 As someone already said, you don't decide on your sexuality. Your body does it with a balance of hormones, and they don't start to stabilise properly until your mid-teens at the earliest - and some people are still changing many years after that.
Nothing wrong with looking at lesbian sex pictures - I've done it myself and I'm most powerfully heterosexual! I would suggest though, that you're a little too young to be doing it. The problem is that sex of any sort is a very powerful force, and it's all too easy to become fixated on something like that before you have the balance and outlook to cope with it rationally and reasonably. Why not leave any firm decisions, and the porn, until you are a few years older? There's more than enough within your own mind at your age for the most wonderful dreams and fantasies - and if you let your imagination run wild in the privacy of your own room, it can be so much better than ANY porn!!
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reader, smeedle +, writes (23 April 2008):
 Good grief, you are too young to be watching this type of stuff let alone deciding on your sexuality.
Slow down, just be yourself without questions like that, plenty of time to think about your sexual prefferences when you are older, who knows what you will be, chill out and enjoy being 12 years old.
Lots of people in there 20`s dont make decisions about there sexuality as they are still maturing, so you will certainly not know at 12yrs.
You will be what you will be, just relax and stop watching any type of porn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks people.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (23 April 2008):
 You are what you are. being something sexually isn't a choice or a decision. its just how and what you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): I don't think that you are too young to decide that you are bi. I don't however think that it'd be a great idea to tell the world just yet. You need to be certain before you let yourself in for anything like that. But give it a few more years to come to a conclusion.
Good luck :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): There is no "right age" to decide whether you are bisexual, as long as you made an informed decision (as previous readers have said). Think about it and experiment but stay safe!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): Hi, I like lesbian porn too. There's nothing wrong with you. If you'd like to talk about it, send me a message. I'll do what I can to to help. Best wishes!
~heidi
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reader, salvation +, writes (23 April 2008):
making a mature informed decision is the best thing to do your not too young to decide and you mite even decide one thing and change your mind somewhere down the line thats ok as long as you think about it and make sure that your sure first dont rush yslf
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): hiya, i'm 17 and i have always had the 'i wonder what it's like to be with a women' question in my head. Between the ages of 14-16 i experimented with this a lot, and even had a relationship with another bisexual girl. However, a few years on, she is now set in her belief that she is bisexual and I'm definitely straight (although some girls can still interest me a bit =P)I think you need to give it a fair few years before you know for sure what sexual orientation you are
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