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30-35,
*wantsomebodytoloveagain
writes:Me and my ex boyfriend have been dating off and on for about a year and a half a total of eight times, this last time, he broke up with me and now he is dating another girl who he seems to like alot and it kills me to see them together, But all i can think about is him and i want him back so bad i still love him, how do i get him back or get myself over him? plezz help
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reader, stacey.m06  +, writes (16 February 2007):
aw this must be a really hard time for you hun. i have been through exactly the same with my ex almost 2 years ago now. as hard as it is, you need to try and accept that he has moved on. until you do this, you will never recieve the closure you need to move on yourself. it will take time but it will get easier. allthough you might not get over him straight away, you will find it easier in time. allow yourself to move on. you deserve to find someone who will give you the love you long for. take care xx
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reader, kenny +, writes (16 February 2007):
 You are still very young, and what you are feeling at the moment is perfectly normal. you really liked this guy, so of course its going to be hard to see him dating another girl.
I know its tough and you probably don't think it now, but you will get over this guy. Soon you will me another boy that sweeps you off your feet, and you will forget all about your ex.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): You are quite young, and sorry to say this but this situation may happen quite a few times in your life. It did with me at your age and it kills at the time. You want them back so badly. Don't go on the revenge trail, you are much better than that. Just walk away with your head held high and your dignity still in tact. He broke up with you, so what, that is his loss in the end. Let him go out with who he wants, just don't moon around and let it get to you. You will meet someone else. Don't go running after him. Certainly don't go back to him, if the chance arises, then turn him down. Come on girl, get out there and you will meet someone you so deserve. STOP WHITTLING NOW!
TAKE CARE
XX
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reader, Thomas17  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 your ex dosent seem like a really good boyfriend to me. he sounds like someone who goes to another girl, and goes with another, and another, and another. you should break up with him, and dont accept if he asks you to be together again, its not worth it. to get over it? itll take sometime, try not to think about him, and avoid him if you can. be with your friends and have fun for now :) good luck
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reader, slightly confused.. +, writes (16 February 2007):
i know its hard to watch the one you love be with someone else. but you have to see the situation from a different angle. im not doubting his feelings towards you but, why would you want to be with someone who wants to be with someone else? it's quite the contradiction. take it from someone who knows, you could talk to him, sit him down and tell him everything your feeling and see what he says. he can either accept or reject you. but remember.. there is pride in letting go, in letting the one you care for be happy. if he's content with this girl, and your attempt at talking to him fails, try to step back and let him be.
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