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writes:how can i stop getting aroused and avoid hard on???whenever i'm with my girlfriend, and i hug and love her ....i get a hard on..but i dislike it...i want to hold her and love her ....as a dick erect in my pants embarresses me a lot...is it possible to love her without having hard on??or how can i reduce the possiblity of getting it noticed by her? Reply to this Question
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reader, 1996Woodstock  +, writes (31 March 2010):
Same thing happens to me, I just go to the bathroom and tuck it up towards my stomach in the elastic in my boxers. If it's "big" enough, I recommend doing that.
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reader, JTalbott  +, writes (12 June 2008):
 Enjoy it, the day will come soon enough when erections won't be a problem and you'll both look back nostalgically on the thrills and chills of your younger days.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): Don't drive yourself crazy over it, it is normal.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (18 March 2008):
 Reminds me of an old joke.Young guy goes to the doctor, "please can't you do something, every time I dance with my sweetheart I get this erection and I have to twist myself to keep her from finding out, please help me".The doctor replies,"oh that is no problem I will give you some pills, take one before you go out and you will have no problem".The boy leaves and before the next date he take a pill. Sure thing, he is dancing with his girl and no erection. Perfect.But as the evenening goes on the girl starts looking more and more depressed. Concerned he asks her,"what is wrong".She replies,"don't you like me anymore"?-----Do I need to explain the joke? Your erection is the normal reaction of being with a girl you find atractive. Unless she led an extremely sheltered life she will know what is going on.One way to kill it solo is to think something unpleasant but you want to keep it down while snogging? Good luck.As for noticing it, wear loose trousers. But really, how old is she? Because a girl your age will have a pretty good idea what is going on down there and understand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): I really don't think this is something you need to be worried about, it just shows that you find her attractive and if she hasn't said anything to you about it, I don't think it is a problem. Its natural!! Don't be embarrassed. Some people wish they could get hard because they can't so be glad that you are lucky enough to find it easy!!! xx
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