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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I like someone a lot but I notice that I think about him too much. I notice that when I like someone I get attached easily and it is hard for me to keep my options open. I am young and I want to be able to stay single to stay focused on my career goals but still be able to talk to guys without getting too hung up and clingy. Any advice? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, sunandstars +, writes (3 January 2011):
I don't think it's possible to control your feelings if you like someone you're talking to, and I think if you have enough self control you can still focus on your career goals, provding your partner understands this. After all, if it's going to be a long term relationship, they'd want to you to get a good job so you can both have a good quality of life. Hope this helps.
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