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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have the nice guy syndrome, but I think I'm slowly getting over it as I'm getting more and more attention from girls. I poke fun at the girls and then the girls generally reply with a flirtatious "you're so mean!" I tend to get more attention from the girls while out with my friends when I do this, whether at parties, bars, or even around campus. Although I'm getting over the NGS, I tend to get attracted and stuck to one girl and usually get blind when she likes me too (assuming she's not too forward with her feelings).I don't know if it's a problem with confidence... always asking myself does she like me and thinking she doesn't? How do I not worry about just ONE girl and have the confidence to pursue several girls?
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (18 March 2011):
 I married the nice guy the rest of the girls over looked, and am so glad that they did. Because he is mine now and I am never letting him go. (19 years and counting)
So don't dispair, once the girls your age have gone the bad boy route, and have been hurt enough times, the smart ones learn to re-appreciate the nice guy that they would have kept squarly in the friend zone just a year or two before.
You may just have to wait a bit until they mature enough to be ready for you.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 March 2011):
 Why pursue several if you and one girl hit it off? Do you want to ruin things with them? Do you think playing them will give you confidence?
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