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writes:My girlfriend was working and a guy that she use to hangout with called her and they were on the phone for 20 min or so. Should I get mad at her? Plus she was ignoring my phone calls. What do I do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): I am a woman and several of my best friends are guys and I would not date someone who had a problem with that. So unless this guy is an ex and you have reason to believe she's not completely over him, chill out.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 October 2011):
 you want to get mad at her for talking to a friend while at work?or you want to get mad at her for working?or you want to get mad at her for talking to another man?or for missing your call?not an offense worth being mad at in my opinion.why does your gf having other male friends bother you?
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reader, frankman +, writes (24 October 2011):
you need to give us more details about it, wwas this friend an ex? how far was her relationship with him, I'm sure your doubts have a reason and maybe a valid one.
in the end and eventually you will easily know and feel if she is perusing any relationship/s beside you or its only you. Always listen to your guts!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 October 2011):
 How about trust your GF? If they constantly were on the phone with each other, I can see why you might be mad, but from what you have written, I don't see the big deal.
Was she ignoring your calls because she ACTUALLY needed to work?
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (24 October 2011):
You can't get mad at her talking to someone on the phone, that is just controlling and shows you to not trust her. Do you trust her? It sounds like you are feeling insecure about the relationship. Perhaps you need to work on your relationship, and make sure you both are happy to be in it. But whatever the case, shouting at her is not going to solve anything, in fact it will just make everything worse.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (24 October 2011):
 No you shouldn't get mad at her. He's an old friend they were probably having a good catch up you wouldn't get mad at her if she was talking on the phone to a female friend for 20 minutes would you? So why is this different.
People of the opposite sex can just be friends you know you sound a little over protective i would speak to her about ignoring your calls though but do it in the right way just mention to her something like "Hey i tryed to call you earlier but you didn't answer."
Don't go shouting the odds straight away and if you are really curious as to why she was on the phone for 20 minutes to another guy just talk to her and ask subtle qeustions such as "oh yeah who was that friend you were speaking to on the phone" or " how was he? ".
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