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36-40,
anonymous
writes:So here it goes. My boyfriend and I don't live together, and we are both in our early twenties. Every once in a while I'll go over to his place and use his computer to check my facebook and myspace. His browser history pops up every time I start to type something in and low and behold, porn. I don't care about porn. It doesn't bother me, especially because I personally look at porn as well. But one thing I did notice that really caught my attention was that dreaded 'teen porn' site (or two...or three). Having run across this in my own searches and knowing full well that most of these "teens" didn't look like teenagers at all, I ignored it and didn't investigate. Recently however I went over and was checking my stuff online on his computer when another link popped up called "teen sex orgy" or something like that. This really caught my interest in a bad way, so I clicked on the link and a video popped up. These girls (and guys for that matter) looked no older than fifteen years old. I know that they probably were legal, but just paid actors for the sake of them looking young...but this really really bothers me. They looked so young. Nothing about them physically hinted toward them being an actual 'legal' adult. They were skinny, almost undeveloped looking. I get the appeal of the illusion of teen sex, but this was teen sex minus the illusion. I actually asked him about this to which he stated it "wasn't his". That he doesn't even use that web browser, so it might have been his brother's. Right.I really don't know what to do. It kind of sickens me of the perspective that my boyfriend might be checking out fifteen year olds in real life. Or even worse, thinking about young kids while we are having sex. I'm not a teenager anymore. Granted I'm still young, but the idea still concerns me. Any advice out there? I mean granted the browser I used recently wasn't what we both normally use, so it could have been another household member. But still. It probably isn't likely. And it frustrates me if he is lying because we are both very open about our porn watching and fantasies.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (17 August 2009):
 Hes a liar do you smell the BS its even steaming lol. drop this guy simply because hes a liar, But im 99.95% sure he looks at teen girls just like 99.95% of all the other men i had to deduct for the blind ones.
many Teenage girls dress sexy by 15 or i6 they generally have all there female parts fully developed coupled with the skin tight outfits and revealing clothes girls wear theese days of course men will look they may have lustful fantisies for well developed 14 year olds. SO.
Mens eyes get older but there still eyes and there still men. I think its normal if you stick to the five second rule, no looking longer then five seconds or its grouping with your eyes, and never ever touch ever ever ever ever.
You may think this is wrong and wierd and disgusting but this the truth men are human beings with sexual wants lust and desires even if it disgust you i think its only a problem when some one finds them self attracted to sexually undeveloped persons.
Who cares what your bf is thinking about when hes sexin you. Atleast hes sexin a grown woman his thoughts are his own affairs. You might enjoy it better if you stop worrying what hes thinking about and focus on the moment.
I think if your sexxin some one they should be honest with you even about there porn habits it might be embarassing to your man but he should have been truthful but you should mind your own business. Unless you see some illegal activity.
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