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writes:My wife of 20 years or so.I found a letter that my wife wrote to a man. Who she was having an affair with the letter was so detailed about the sex she had with him.I pick up the phone called her work and told her about the letter .She said it was not that bad like iam a stupid.I wanted to harm him but as soon i called her she told him its over my husband caught us he packed up and left but she would not tell all the truth just what she wrote to him i know she like to give a man a BJ and she said i did not do that but it was alright for her to let him not use a condom and cum in her or she wrote she would shave his private parts. and just the why she said he made her climax. Iam pissed off hard to forget PLEASE HELP?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2021): She adventitious, oversexed, likes giving oral and you signed up. She's a keeper. Let her have it more often. Meet her off the beaten path for a car BJ. I'm her twin -- we like doing this stuff. Lay down the law but fulfill her needs.
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reader, Kofcalifornia +, writes (15 December 2021):
It sounds like you don't want to leave so I assume you are still in love with her correct? Try to look at where you were lacking in the relationship. What was she getting grom him that you were not providing to her. Maybe you can work past it, maybe you cannot but she is your wife and you will always regret it if you just leave without attempting to reconcile the trust that was broken. Boundaries reliability accountability the vault integrity non judgment and generosity are all necessary to maintaining a successful relationship. If you decide to forgive her don't throw it in her face whenever she upsets you. Be the bigger man and be honest about your emotions and clearly state your intentions. Best of luck to you. Be careful.
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reader, Mikeyp +, writes (14 December 2021):
Mikeyp is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for the support use gave me I’ll take the advice .
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 December 2021):
 Mike,
You know what to do. Call a lawyer, file for divorce, get a STI check-up (asap)
Why she made her choices is anyone's guess. Sounds like she is trying to gaslight you into thinking it's no big deal when in fact it is.
Sorry, OP I'd be done.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (13 December 2021):
 She has lied to you and betrayed your trust, no one would blame you for walking away from this marriage.
She has been caught red handed, and then tries to pass it off claiming it was not that bad, classic sign of someone who knows they were in the wrong.
Trust in the most important contributing factor that binds a relationship together, without trust then a relationship is doomed, and this relationship is now seriously lacking in this department.
If the letter is true then she has betrayed you, put your health at risk by going unprotected, and risking pregnancy, so no wonder you find it hard to forget, this is a huge red flag.
Now she has done this your more than likely never going to be able to trust her again, suspecting her, her whereabouts, is she still seeing him?.
These feelings are unhealthy, and often get worse over time.
I think i would go and obtain some legal advice and see where you stand and what your rights are.
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