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female
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anonymous
writes:So last night I was fooling around with a guy and we were doing it doggy style and suddenly (i'm not sure if it was on purpose or an accident) he slipped into my butt. I've never had any sort of anal penetration before, and it surprised me to the point that I fell limp onto the bed and start to gag. It felt like I was going to puke and I had no control, as if I were piss drunk. Thankfully I didn't. So, does this happen often during anal sex? Anyone else experienced this? I've heard good things about anal and am a little interested in trying it again, but not if this is going to happen. Also, my butt has felt weird all day, I'm guessing thats a side effect to?
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reader, AuntyMaur  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 I wonder how long you have known this man?
I am of the belief that venturing away from the " Norm "
Requires permission / discussion with the people involved, to establish if there are any sexual boundaries -But this person has simply dominated the situation without respect or permission to rip his cock into your anus without lube.
Im not surprised you were gagging - why didnt you stop it?
Did you feel compelled to do it?
Your butt will settle down though I suspect your a little bruised.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): First, your lucky you were not injured. Surprise anal entry is not generally a good thing, but it sounds like you were relaxed and had enough anal mucus (and he your juices) to provide adequate lubrication.
Most people will tell you anal will hurt (massively) without lube, however some people can safely go without- but next time let's assume you are NOT one of those.
My ex-wife went nuts from anal, but never gagged. She would shudder (best description) and loose motor control and moan like CRAZY, but not gag. The orgasms (G-spot orgasms) were 10X+ stronger than the clitoral orgasams she had from viginal sex.
Afterward, your ass is likely to be sensitive, and sitting a bit uncomfortable, however, it should be very minor and nothing truly painful.
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