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writes:I need help. I fell in love with this guy then he asks me out his name is i am going to say John(actually 21 years old) and at the same time the guy i was once with named Tom(now 18/19years old) . Well tom is an ex of mine from sophomore year of high school and i just met john three months ago and well i had feeling for tom sense he left...er... Well moved. then i moved on after four long years and then john asks me out right after I find out Tom moved back and well what I am saying is I am deeply in love with both of them equally and I can not decide who to chose. John the one I just meet or Tom the guy I have a history with. (these are not their actual names). Can someone please help me. I am only 18 years old too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2015): You can't be equally in-love with two people. Trying to have them both is just a little greedy. That's putting it nicely. It is cheating on one to have the other, and that's selfish. Going way to far to have your way. It's being far too entitled, and messing around with their feelings.
You are very young, and have yet to discover what real love is; or you wouldn't be in this predicament. How do these guys feel about you? Does one know about the other?
You made the most recent guy in your life believe your feelings are about him. In truth through all this, he's just a rebound; because one left and you took on a replacement. Now he's back, and you want him back.
Because your indecisiveness comes from immaturity, and you need some experience to learn more about commitment; I would say you're not ready for either of them. If you had to chose one, chose the one who seems to care for you the most.
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reader, suzzzque269 +, writes (15 November 2015):
 people change in 4 years...youve had different experiences. if youre happy and so in love with the new guy id stay with him.
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