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Am I overreacting by being jealous of her former lover?

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Question - (14 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2008)
A male Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My wife and i have been married for a few years now but one of her former lovers has always cast a cloud over our marriage as far as I'm concerned. Whenever she sees him she just acts like I'm not there and they get talking for ages and laughing and stuff. At our wedding reception she spent most of the evening dancing with him and I was really pissed off, I think it must have been obvious to other people. Anyway we recently bought a new dresser for her and when it came to move her clothes she sent me out of the room like she had something to hide. So later I'm really curious and had to try to find what she was covering up. In the back of the drawer where she keeps her most intimate underwear I find a gold plated cigarette lighter in a case. She hasn't smoked for years but I remembered that it was a gift from this guy. Am I overreacting by being jealous?

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A female reader, mari1021 United States +, writes (14 October 2008):

mari1021 agony aunthonestly your in tough situation i understand her it is wrong that in your reception she danced with him the whole night but my former ex boyfriend was like my bestfriend we can no longer talk because his gf is extremly jealous of me even though i had moved out of the city i lived six hours away and had a bf but he might just be really important to her and she wants to remember him i have a box of things my ex bf gave me and their sentimental value but were over with she married you didnt she?

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