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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: I feel threatened when someone tries to control me emotionally, as i feel my identity is under some kind of threat and those who control me would try to abuse me to meet their own selfish needs. How do I face this abusive behavior by people? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Helen Help! :) +, writes (22 May 2007):
Hey Huni Well so u should feel threatend i see you are aged between 22-25 which is good cuz this means you can stop this yourself, Its all about confidence if you dont want to do things then you say NO! this is your life your living and if you dont want to do something then you dont have to. if were talkin about a partner or family member ide first suggest telling them how u feel they might not realise they are doin this to you. If that doesnt work the only thing you can do is stay away from them as much as you can you dont want to be around someone who makes u feel uncomfortable. Im no professional at this so ide also suggest looking on the internet for a little advice to. Good Luck Huni x
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