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writes:My boyfriend and I are constantly arguing. Lately, we have been arguing infront of all of our friends.This is very unusual for us, because usually if we have something to say to one another - we take it somewhere else, but lately I have been blowing up infront of all of his friends and family! I feel so guilty for this.My reasons for arguing:1) He is trying to commit to a gang. I hate when he flashes his colors infront of me. 2) He is always getting high - and constantly leaving me to go get it, or leaving me to do it.3) He won't even let me sit NEAR a guy - and he gets very overprotective and even gets mad when I talk to him own brother!His reasons for arguing:1) Going out after spending time with him - and having drinks with friends.2) Arguing with him infront of his friends and family.3) Arguing with him about flashing his colors infront of me?Should I feel guilty? Reply to this Question
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reader, wee_neko  +, writes (9 July 2009):
It sounds like a bad situation that will only get worse. You should probably get out before it does so, but your arguing doesn't seem unreasonable. True, you probably shouldn't do it in front of other people, but he probably shouldn't be doing the stuff he's doing either.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (9 July 2009):
 no you should not feel guilty!
he won't let you sit near a guy because he's getting high and it's paranoia his uncontrollable mind takes over and he get's highly paranoid.
if this is occuring you want to get out of there you shouldn't have to put up with that from him.
his reasons are petty you have good reasons to argue with him
he should not send you to get his stuff to get him high!
that's unfair!
do yourself a favour sweety get out of there quickly before he controls the whole of your life!
hope this helps :)
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): you shouldn't feel guilty about fighting with your boyfriend, you have a right to your own opinion. As far as him wanting to join a gang....he will. If that is the life he wants then that is exactly what he will do. you just have to ask yourself if that is the life that you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): no you shouldnt feel guilty but you should leave him.
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