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writes:I used to never care and never get angry. Now everything irrtates me. I can't stand half of my friends. I used to be chill and let people act however they wanted, but now I just don't care. I'm actually revangful now. Kind of feel like getting back on everyone. Not in a psycho way. What I mean is most of my friends have relationships and they say that it;s love and what not, but really they're bf or gf are cheating on each other and I kind of feel like telling them. Just cause lately they're been saying how I will never find someone like they have. Would it be ****** up of me to do that? I mean they're assholes... and I know this sounds childish and im really calm person, but I'm just so over it. I never get back on anyone, but now i just don't care and feel like I need to show them the real picture. Should I? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2011): Okay i totally understand im the same way and when i didnt have a bf my friends said the same things but their bf/gfs were cheating. If they were a really close friend i said something not to get revenge but just so they wouldnt continue to b with a person thats hurting them. With the others i didnt rly make it my business. I wouldnt worry bout getting revenge or anything sooner or later theyll find out. I would try making new friends.
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (17 July 2011):
i wouldnt get revenge on them personally i would leave them to it cheats always get found out eventually it never goes on for long without getting caught as for your friends irritating you sounds like you need some new friends
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reader, Abella +, writes (17 July 2011):
 Hi
you definitely need a better class of friends. But I would not waste time acting in revenge for their actions to you. I would instead walk away from them. Can you move to a new area? Or just join some groups that involve things they are not interested in? Perhaps the reason that you don't have a cheating lying partner, nor any partner is because you are not like them. And people are judged by the company they keep, right or wrong. It may be that there are nice people out there who would enjoy your company. But they may be turned off approaching you, because of the company you are with.
Walk away without a backward glance. Don't even waste a breath saying goodbye.
If they want to cheat and lie and dishonour their relationships then leave them to their cess pool.
Get out in the community. Join a volunteer group. Do some good things for others. Enroll in a class to learn a new skill. Re-decorate your bedroom. Get involved in a fitness group. Revamp your wardrobe. Get a new hair style. Change your makeup. You will feel like you are a new person.
And be a good listener to others and make some new friends.
Sounds like you need this very much
Regards
Abella
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (17 July 2011):
 Well...that's a hard one. I wouldn't blame you if you did, honestly. But do you really want to cause pain? Even if people are pissign you off? Would it maybe be better to just remove yourself from these people who are being shitty?
On the other side, I can understand how when they say things like "you'll never find someone" (not true, they're full of shit and you should tell them that) you'd want to give them a little reality. Whether or not you decide to "show them the real picture", I'd say stop hanging out with these jerk offs.
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