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female
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36-40,
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writes:ok a different type of relationship problem... I haven't seen my friend in a number of weeks and i'd organised to go out with her tonight, thing is another friend of hers came home from france as a "surprise" (my friend last seen her friend 1 week before she last seen me so its like the same length of time) and we were planning on going to a club but now she says she feels bad that she can't divide herself and wants to catch up with me but her friend doesn't like the club and is going to a pub and so she is going too is this fair or am i being silly? 1 my friend clearly has choosen to see her friend over seeing me and 2 has let her friend decide where they are going instead of saying she had already made plans as she didn't know she was coming home.feeling pretty let down...Thanks in advance Reply to this Question
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reader, loving arms  +, writes (7 March 2009):
I can understand you're upset however, the surprise friend probably did not mean to upset all the plans. I cannot understand why you were not invited along to the new venue. You don't say if the surprise arrival is home for good or just for a while. This would make a diference to how negative your friends actions have been. If the surprise visitor is home for good then your friend could have put her off by saying she has prior arrangements. If she's only here for a short time then i can understand your friends actions as you and her could meet up at a later date. Maybe explain that you feel let down. I hope everytihng works out ok.
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