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writes:Hey, first post here so i apoligise if im doing something wrong..I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months and she is a good looking girl, who could probably get lots of attention off other guysour sex life has dropped a little, and I want to spice it up by doing something that i am sure would excite us bothi quite fancy making her dress quite 'slutty' and going 2 a club, getting quite drunk, and letting her dance and tease a few guys before coming back 2 me..i was just wondering if this is a good or bad thing for our relationship, i want to do this because i quite like the idea, but i reckon i would regret it if she really enjoyed the attention she got from other guys and dressed like that more often, when i wasnt there. i trust her and love her. would this make her more likely 2 cheat, or would it strengthen our relationship in someway?
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reader, Tii3RN3Ybbs. +, writes (8 August 2008):
 Hi There,
Yeah fair enough it might spice things up and she might try something different in your sexual relationship,
buht yous could both try sexy clothes,
but gettin her to get quite drunk and tease guys
won't always turn out the right way?
And you don't want your girlfriend to run off with other guys,
and knowing it will be your fault because you thought of this idea?
maybe sit down and think about it?
B'cause you don't wanna make the wrong decisions.
Hope all goes well..
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (7 August 2008):
 Depends on her, obviously. I've done this with girlfriends (not intentionally, but it happens at clubs) and had great sex afterwards. As long as you're not a jealous type, and she's not a cheating type, it can be relatively harmless. But it is a bit dangerous to mess with other guys because you never know if you'll find one who's too drunk or stupid to let her go after some dancing.
And of course she'll enjoy the attention, what girl wouldn't?
It's risky but it can work, as long as you don't have any deeper relationship problems that you aren't addressing. I'd say you need to have an exceptionally strong bond to do something like this without it causing issues later. So consider yourself warned.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (7 August 2008):
 are you serious? you want to let your girlfriend go and give other guys the impression that she wants to get with them? very strange..... i suggest you spice things up by getting more adventurous in the bedroom, different positions, toys etc. play it safe! your gf mite find that suggestion very offensive as well.
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