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30-35,
*llineedistime
writes:I feel like I jump down my boyfriend's throat for stupid things. He's so clueless most of the time about what I want him to do, and I feel like I need to let him know but when I do he gets upset because he really doesn't mean to do anything wrong. Example: flirting. He used to be very flirty with me, but now when I initiate he barely even responds and it hurts my feelings. I brought this up and immediately felt like a whiny, clingy weirdo. But it upsets me and I feel like I should tell him. Now I think he's unhappy with me. I don't know what to do... help?
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (27 November 2009):
 Yeah I agree with Melys, instead of just springing it on your bf next time he does something you don't like, tell him you wanna make time for a proper chat to see where you're both at in your relationship.
Don't feel like you're being whiny or clingy, it's always best to speak up if somethings becoming a problem, just be careful you don't make it sound like a criticism, choose your words carefully!
Good luck :)
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reader, Melys  +, writes (26 November 2009):
 Hey,
Why don't you both call on a chat? You both ned to sit down and discuss how you feel and communicate....cause there seems to be a misunderstanding between you both...so...you listen to him and he should listen to you...so that you can understand eachother better...
Do you still love your boyfriend? If so then this should work..
Good Luck!
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