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*corpio123
writes:Hey everyone,Im 15 and have been with the same boy now for 2 years. Our relationship didn't get off to a good start, I'm only seeing that now as at the time I was so 'in love' etc. I just thought he was great and excused everything he done..Long story short, he was constantly sending very flirty texts to other girls for about a year, they were swapping pictures etc. and I seen all of this, and he repeatedly done it, I should have dumped him there and then but ofcourse I didn't. Also, about 8 months into the relationship one day he told me he had only wanted to get with me because he wanted sex, and him telling me he loved me was only for that reason. Yet he didn't seem to see the problem with this..We broke up for about a week, a month ago, and I went on holidays and met some lovely men and realised there is so much more out there, especially at this age.So I came back from my holiday of 2 weeks and told my boyfriend I would get back with him but it was only to be very casual and take things slow.Now its the opposite of what it was at the start of the relationship. Hes really into me and doesn't want anyone else but I'm now thinking it's lost it's spark and I'm too young to be taking a boy so seriously.But I do care for him a lot and I'm so close to him, but I just miss the excitement of being with someone new and getting to learn about each other etc.Any advice would be much appreciated (=
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (25 August 2009):
 Yes, I can understand after two years of being with him it would be hard to let him go. Try having s talk with him about his and your feelings. Ask him why are you with me? How do you feel about me? Explain to him how much it hurt when he just wanted to use you for sex. But I still think you should kick this guy to the curb! You deserve better then what he has done to you. You are young and shouldn't have to worry about relationships. You should be enjoying life. Are you rea;;y happy with him? If not dump him, heal and get over him, and enjoy life. Later on in life you will find a man who loves you and will not uae you for sex. Good Luck, I hope you are happy nomatter what you choose!
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reader, scorpio123 +, writes (24 August 2009):
scorpio123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for your replys :)
Yes part of me thinks I should dump him, but after 2 years with this boy we've grown so close, it would be so hard to let that go .. you know ?
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reader, sunnycomet +, writes (24 August 2009):
If you feel like you are too young for a serious relationship then you are. Just enjoy life, you can always fuss over guys later.
Now about your boyfriend. DUMP HIM NOW! He told you that he lied about loving you and only wants you for sex. I hope you didn't have sex with this jerk. Get him out of your life and heal. You don't deserve someone who treats you like this!
If you miss the excitment then just go on dates with guys and don't let it get to serious. (After you healed from this jerk and you are over him.)
Good Luck!
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