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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and i feel like hes getting bored of me and i do not want to loose him because he means the world to me what can i do to keep him happy and occupied we already have a sexual relationship how can i spice it up abit? Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (27 July 2006):
 How is he showing his *boredom*? All relationships have a cooling off period, perhaps you have just hit yours. More info please.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (27 July 2006):
 Yes, HotAdvice, I agree to some extent, but he may not realise that he appears bored, and the girl has asked how SHE can spice things up - This 'crap'(?) is FUN; and the girl WANTS fun in her life..Who is to say that he won't reciprocate with a few ideas of his own, once inspired?? Boredom is not a sign of immaturity - it is a disease that can be contracted at any age!
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (26 July 2006):
 Can be a bit tiring doing all that crap ALL the time, you shouldn't have to be thinking what you can do to please HIM all the time, what about YOU?.. that is not how a relationship works. He is obviously too immature for a relationship, all relationships get to some sort of routine eventually, of course it's nice to do things spontaneously etc, but you don't want it to come from you all the time, there is TWO people in the relationship here not ONE, so he needs to pull his finger out and do stuff too.
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reader, snowbird +, writes (26 July 2006):
Go out to a few new places with him, bowling, say, or play or learn a sport together and maybe even a trip to the local Ann Summers shop, or look on a website for ideas. Phone him at work and tell him that you are feeling horny, and you are waiting! You can be as descriptive as you like - use your imagination! Just remember, when he arrives all steamed up and raring to go, not to be sat there with curlers in your hair and a face pack on in big grey knickers - look your best - and BE READY! Sexy undies, always make a guy sit up and take notice! Try it before you settle into a predictive rut with one another...have fun, and BE HAPPY!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2006): I would try and talk to him about what he wants. if you pick up some ideas and suprise him with it one time. If its anything sexual hell get massively excited as well as realising how much you actually pick of what hes saying. If its not sexual he will just find it sweet that youve taken the effort to do something spontaneous and exciting.
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