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writes:I sent dirrty texts to this lad i no cos e asked me 2 n im nt bovered bout that, bt his sister has read them and she's also my best friend. I dont no how shes going 2 act when she sees me because their both on holiday and im really worried even tho i shudnt be. And im upset at him for nt showig her the ones he sent me aswell. Why am i so mad? Why am i so worried? and anyone whos been is this situation what hapened? how did it end? Any advice is greatly appriceated!
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (15 August 2006):
 You need to choose which relationship is worth saving. After your last entry I would think that the friendship with the sister is your best bet.
Let this guy go and make amends with your friend. Tell her you were stupid for doing it, beg for her forgiveness and never look at her brother again.
In the long run you will need a good friend, more guys will come along and more guys will leave but a good friendship can last your lifetime.
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (9 August 2006):
katzkitten is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you. it turns out he didnt show her she luked at his fone. but i thought he new that shed luked and we were arguin the other day i sed well y didnt u delete them n he sed i did n i wo lyk well ow cums she saw em den. he wo lyk she didnt. then we fell out more. she defo saw them and our argument changed to something else but i lost my point. grrr this is so complicated. sorry. thank you for your nswer. if you have any thoughts on my update plz let me no im so confused x x x
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reader, Jadzia1127 +, writes (27 July 2006):
You are mad because your trust was broken it is only natural. You're probably worried for now you might not have a friend in his sister depending on her reaction.
This is a hard lesson to learn, but never again do anything you don't want everyone to know about with a boyfriend or just a guy friend.
As for your friend you might be able to convince her that her brother pushed you into sending those texts.
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