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writes:Hey you gus it's lotmoney13!!!! i'm not sure if this'll be my final or not question. everyone who reads my questions knows i'm in love with a straight guy and i can't tell him how i feel just yet. i just wanted to say that i've been so generous and nice and kind-hearted to everyone in my life, like almost evryone likes me. i just need to know if it's my turn....can i be helped and can my heart just get what it wants for once. i've been so nice and helpful to everyone in my life but i haven't asked anything back.......except this... please how do i tell him? should i tell him? why cant i have him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Brae123  +, writes (19 October 2008):
hey. Just tell him already. If you wait to long he could get taken. Then it's to late. So just ask him.Maybe he is gay, maybe he isn't. You will never know if you don't tell him how you feel. take a chance, if he says he feels the same way then good for you, but if he says he is straight the oh well. Find some else, I'm sure there is someone else you love and someone else who loves you back. I say just tell him. I can't hurt to just say it. Take a chance.
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (19 October 2008):
 Hi, even if you are nice and generous to everyone that does not mean that you get the thing or person that you really want..lol that would be an idealistic world. If you really fall for him I personaly doubt that he is straight. Not everybody admits to themselves that they are gay. ALL the people I had a crush on turned out to be gay because they came out of there closet much later. At the begining they were always in denial that they were gay.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (18 October 2008):
 you tell him by telling him, and you dont by not telling him. ive been where you are worn the t shirt and done nothing about it and what a waste so take a risk, a chance, a gamble and if it doesn't work out you wont regret not going for it cos then you can move on and put this love to rest.
and if he satys he loves you too then woo hooo
plus i would suggest that you phrase it as you have dep feelings for him as love can be difficult to come back from and if he responds to something less intense then you can open up to him fully.
love works best when we peel one petal at a time
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