A
female
age
41-50,
*enat
writes:i'm in a really good relationship, but the thing is i'm scared stiff! i was in a bad relationship, it ended sour a few month before we were to get married. now im due to get married to my new partner and we've both had a bad couple of years. his mum and best friend died last year, i was just getting myself back to normal after my relationship broke down and i was recovering from a major illness. then we got together. i feel like we are both trying to fill a void in our lives and i'm scared he'll cheat like my ex just before we get married. please help i need advice.i'm confused, i do love him.
View related questions:
best friend, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Danielepew  +, writes (4 July 2007):
 Yellowdaffodil is just right.
A
female
reader, yellowdaffodil  +, writes (4 July 2007):
Reread your first sentence. You are in a good relationship. I believe that when the person is the right one then it is the right time. It is normal to feel scared before making such a commitment but you should a certainty that this man is the one who you love unconditionly. Once that comes, there is a peacefulness in your heart. As for the cheating, that act affects personalities forever. You may forgive but you never really forget. It's a possibility that any man can do that but it doesn't mean that you can't love and trust again. If you are not sure how about just taking some more time? You are still very young. You have many years to have children. If it's meant to be you will still be together.
...............................
|
