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writes:Hi all, Me and my ex have both just graduated from university, we have been together for about about 3 months.Uni has finished she is going back home for the summer (greece) and then coming back to continue to do a masters. All was going well until the day before she was due to fly home she told me she wanted to break up, this came as a massive shock as we had only been on the phone the previous day saying we miss each other and she loves me. She says she needs space and is'nt ready for the commitment. The time apart over the summer is 2 months, which i know is almost as long as we have been together. She says she still loves me and there is no one else. She also said this might not have happened if the summer had'nt arrived. We often spoke about the upcoming summer and we even talked of visiting each other - all seemed well ! I have a feeling it may have been a front because of her fathers disapprovel of our relationship, she is very much daddys little girl.As i said she is returning in 2 months, but i'm worryed if i dont contact her she will think i've forgotten her and ruin any possibilty of us maybe getting together again.Its been almost two weeks and we hav'nt had contact, should i try and get in touch? I dont know what to do!I miss her so much...XxX
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reader, BeautifulLair +, writes (4 July 2007):
it sounds to me like now the summer had come and you wont be with eachother she just wants to be free and single. you have not been together for long and this relationship ending should have no long term effect on your life. i'd wait until she comes back and see if she trys to get back with you. if she does, it confirms my suspisions. i feel its wrong of her to leave you holding on by strings, your obviously more into her then she is you. She is old enough to think for herself and put her father straight. I'd move on and enjoy the summer yourself, chances are you'll meet someone new and be even happier! good luck..
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reader, penat +, writes (4 July 2007):
Write this young lady a letter and tell her how you feel and things might pick up were you left off. Remember to ask her if she feels the same and ask why she ended it so suddenly. good luck.
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