A
female
age
36-40,
*aryam
writes:I am a lesbian, and a woman whom has 5 children fancied me but difficult situation nw..?Well, just a brief summary, I met her through my mother as she was friends with her mother-in-law. She is about 32, I am 22. I didn't like her at first but noticed since the first time she met me she couldn't take her eyes off me. Was very shy towards me I just knew she fancied me. She was not my type as I don't usually go for married people. I got to know her, I always used to tag along with mum whenever she used to go to their house. So many things happened that made me realise she wanted me. Whenever she sat next to me she was sat really closely that I could hardly breathe. She just kept staring at me, and was very shy. Then time after that I had to go in the bedroom as they were having a extension built, mum was with me so was her mother in law. It was dark in the room and N**** stroked my hair and poked my breasts. I didn't think much off it--I thought I was imagining things. Then time after that as I walked into her house she slowly caressed my neck and kissed me gently...it was awesome We just got on so well, she doesn't know I'm a lesbian. She probably thinks I don't fancy her but thing is I'm in love with her. I haven't spoken to her in ages as I know she's married and I was trying to stay away. Mum broke up with her mother in law by siding with a different friend. A family feud is going on so I cant speak to her now. I saw her at a funeral recently it was a neighbour's funeral. But as soon as i walked in she couldn't take her eyes off me, I was having the same effect. When she saw me her body language suggested she was very happy to see me. I couldn't speak to her as her husband was with her and my mother was with me. She said to me once your face is so beautiful. I was flattered. She also said "I wish I had someone like you". She got into an arranged marriage. We are both Muslims. I just saw her now in the car she was driving and so was I, when I turned the corner her face was acting as though she didn't see me. I know it's my fault as I've blanked her so many times.I haven't listed how many times by the way as this is long enough as it is. I love her so much but don't know if she knows I feel the same. It makes me cry. Advise me on what to do please? xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2007): Go for it :)
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (2 July 2007):
You say that both of you are Muslims. And that you are a Lesbian.There will be those who will say: "Go for it". But as you know,even if she is also a Lesbian, and that you are not sure of, The love between you two can never be an open affair. I am not, as a male, trying to tell you what gender you should or shouldn't love. However why not pull-Up http//www.vexen.co.uk Homosexuality in Islam,Christianity and Religion. As for Religion, There are a lot of religious kooks out there who think they speak for God. Do hope that this has been helpful to you.
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