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writes:Hi there.I'm 18 and have been having sex for over a year now. On average I last about 5 seconds!!!I've tried everything to last longer in bed. I've strengthened my PC muscle, start and stop etc.On mine and my girlfriends one year anniversary we had sex and somehow i lasted 20+ minutes!!! I can remember than i was really full after a meal and when i was having sex i was thinking more about my stomach aching than actually having sex itself.I need something that will actually help. Has anyone here cured there premature ejaculation and if so how?It's driving me mad!!!
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reader, mytwocents  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 You can't go the rest of your life only having decent sex after big meals, so let me try to figure this out with you.
I've also heard the dozens of (sometimes contradictory) advice on this issue. I even read somewhere that hanging something kind of heavy (like a towel) from your erection serves as a sort of workout to improve your stamina. I read that masturbating actually makes it worse. I've also read that it can make it better--if you try to do it in a way that prolongs it as long as possible. I've also heard all the exercise business. Who knows, right?
I swing between phases where I have this exact issue (lose my load in a second) and where I'm the opposite (Mr. Super-Endurance Cum-at-My-Will Sex God). I still can’t figure it all out, but have made some determinations about myself that you should consider.
When I take my current girlfriend from the back (and she's flat on her belly), I can rarely last more than a couple of minutes. In my case, I simply can't handle the combination of her smooth, and masterful, hip motions and the sight of her anatomical-masterpiece-of-an-ass. Sorry to put it so callously, but I almost came in my pants just sitting here thinking about it. Kidding, of course. So you should think about positions that make you "explode" especially fast.
Since you were distracted by your full stomach on your anniversary and that strangely worked, you may want to consider other (more appealing) distractions. Try a TV or radio. You can also try doing it standing up or crouching over her, so that you're distracted by having to hold yourself up.
The other thing you should consider is doing the start-stop thing, but with your actual girlfriend. I'm sure she'll be more than cooperative and willing to help you out. Do her super-slow for a little while, then pull out and rest for a minute or two. Then repeat. It may be cumbersome at first, but you need to retrain that brain of yours SOMEHOW.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): Hmmmmm....just try 2 focus on sumthing else...and like-A reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009)- said, try masterbaiting...b4 i tried it i could only last about 5 min...now its like 45-an HOUR tat i can last
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): Why not masterbate before hand once or twice so you wont come as fast during sex. I think that should help. When guys are feeling upset or thinking of something els during sex it takes longer to come bc there diconected from what there doing.
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