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anonymous
writes:I have been talking online to a guy for about 5 months. We knew each other before but not well. In the last few months I felt that we had really struck up a good friendship. Our chats were both flirty and fun as well as sometimes deep and meaningful. We usually talked about 3 times a week.We were making arrangements to meet up (as we are long distance this wasn't going to be easy). Recently he told me he has met someone and that they are in love. He then asked if I still wanted to visit him and I said yes I did. Since then he has been completely ignoring me and I don't understand why he would cut me off like this? Could it be that he thinks I am interested in more than friendship or perhaps he has been interested in me and now he has found someone else he doesn't have the time for me anymore?Have I been completely naive to think that we were friends when it now seems that we're not!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): Just sounds like you were friends with a little bit of flirtation to get through lonely times and now he's found someone he has fallen in love with and is 100% involved. It's probably not personal, he's just "in love" and "in love" people tend to fall off the face of the planet!
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