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writes:Ok, so i was with my ex boyfriend for about 4 years. We were high school sweethearts. I mean i gave my all to this guy! I was young and yes i'm a flirt but i never cheated on him. During our second year i moved to a different state and i asked him if he would want to continue the relationship with me. By my surprise he said yes. Then i moved back about 7 months later and lived with one of my girlfriends while i finish high school. On weekends i call his house home. Everything was great. No parents and no rules. I was a bit of a party animal. He was very possessive in some ways and it got on my nerves. But to make the story short, i finished high school then i moved back with my parents. There was an arguement when i told him i was moving back. I moved back because i missed my mom and my siblings. I also asked him again if he wanted to continue the realtionship, and again he said yes. We made long distance relationship look like cake. I would see him whenever i can and vice versa. It was great. Then the whole distance got to us. School got him and work got me. It was impossible but we still managed. Then i met someone, and i mean this guy--when i saw him time stood still! I tried to fight it but i fell. So i ended my relationship with my high school sweetheart. We had long talk about it. I mean he tried to keep me but i was not having it. So with that being said now i'm with the new guy, don't get me wrong he's great and all but he just can't add up to my high school sweetheart. I find myself always thinking about him and how great we were. I want to call him but i threw away his number when we broke up. and now i have no way of reaching him. i emailed his sister but she has not responded and i now it's not fair for the new guy. But i just can't help myself. I need some sense knocked into me. Please help!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): stay with the new guy.the same thing happend to me. the exact same thing.of course you'll miss your ex and think about him he was there for a few years, hes all you knew.being with someone that is closer to you makes things easier.things happen for reasons.\good luck!!
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reader, Variety  +, writes (23 June 2007):
 Keep trying with the new guy. It seems as if you are expecting your relationship to instantly morph into the king you and your ex had - one that took four years to build! Give it time and this too may be a special relationship. Otherwise you may end up going from guy to guy to try and find an instantly perfect relationship. Good luck and message me if you want to chat. xxx
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reader, nologo  +, writes (23 June 2007):
 My advice is: stay with the new guy.
Experience is a part of who you are.
You were lucky in past and life showed you a cheesecake smile.
There was a feeling like this can last forever, but what left?
"I need some sense knocked into me" - Relationship is not art.
By saying this I mean you cannot put it in a frame and exibit.
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