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writes:i met a guy a few weeks ago........hit it off immediately and we constantly text and phone each other and he invited me to come visit for the weekend as he was going to his friends birthday party. which i attended and we have a great time and he introduced me to all his friends as his friend, which suited me as this is what we are at this stage.problem is.....i really really like him and we discussed just being friends and it suited us. I stayed at his place onthe weekend and whilst we didnt have sex, we shared the same bed and cuddled and kisssed only.since then, he has been ringing me and texting me constantly, whilst i have held off somewhat as my feelings have grown for this guy and i dont want to ruin a friendship.....but i cant help but get mixed feelings from him?? he always wants know how my day is going, if i have a bad day he is worried and calls me babe and gorgeous and well yeah........ we are still friends. heis sucha nice guy and i was spoiled absolutley rotten byy him on the weekend and made sure that i was having fun etc....is there something there or do i just have a ver friendly friend??
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reader, sunandstars  +, writes (22 June 2011):
It sounds like there may be something there, or he is VERY VERY friendly friend. I always think of things in this way, 'what's the worst that could happen'? If you tell him you have feelings for him the worst thing that can happen is that he doesn't feel the same and things are a bit awkward for a little while. Is a potentially really good love worth giving up because of a little bit of unlikely awkwardness? He sounds like he likes you, he slept in the same bed as you and evidently cares a lot. I don't think there's any harm in asking if he feels the same?
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