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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend is in 9th grade and im in 11th. i have kissed many guys and have a good amount of experience. He is very shy and we have only been going out for a week and he wont even hold my hand. I care a lot about him and want to hold his hand and hug and kiss him but i dont know what he wants. im worried to ask him so what do i do. I dont wanna make all the first moves. How do i know what he wants without comming out and saying it??? please help
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (22 January 2011):
 Well, he's already shy and now he's dating an older, more experienced woman! No wonder he is a little bit nervous. I'm sure that he wants to hold your hand, hugs you, kiss you, but he's probably nervous about how to approach all that stuff. I would just open up and tell him that you want to do all that stuff! Or, make the first move yourself!
I am thinking that he is just very, very timid. Good luck!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 Well you say he is shy therefore maybe he doesnt have much experience and he doesnt know what to do, maybe he is feeling the same way as you and he doesnt want to make the first moves either in case he does something that you dont want him to do. I think you really need to talk to him about it. If you are in a relationship with this guy then you should be able to be open and honest with him about how you feel. Just ask him what he would like and ask him does it make him feel awkward when you go to hold his hand or kiss him. Am afraid the only way to get the bottom of it is to talk to him.
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