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Come On, and Let Me Know...Should I Stay or Should I Go?

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Question - (21 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

You know what they say: problems come in bunches.

My boyfriend and i have been together for almost four months. we're really clase and have a strong relationship, but lately we've been having problems with miscommunication, not seeing each other, and little spats.

Enter guy number 2. I met another guy while working retail, and we have become friends, talking, laughing, and spending time together. I know this new guy is interested in me, and were I single, I would go out with him without hesitation.

I definitely am not a cheater, and I really care about my boyfriend, but in light of the recent problems, I'm tempted by this new guy friend.

Should I leave my man and try the new guy or stick it out with him and keep the new guy in the friend zone?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011):

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Thank you!! Just to update: yesterday my boyfriend and I went out, had a long talk, and now everything is going a lot better. Then we had an absolutely wonderful date. It was a great way to celebrate our 4 months :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011):

Keep trying to patch things up with your boyfriend, and keep this other guy in the friend zone. If things really arent working, then you always have this guy. Just dont use him as rebound, make sure you wait a bit before you take him out of the friend zone.

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