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I don't want to lose her but I suspect she goes out a lot behind my back! What should I do?

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Question - (9 November 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2006)
A male , *oxer writes:

i met a girl in the summer ,she is from poland and she left her boyfriend of 4 years for me which was a suprise for me now she is gone back to finish her final college year and is begging for me to go over,she sends me letters all the time and i love her but i cant get suspicions out of my head she only has male friends and goes out a lot when i ask her about this she gets offended and says i dont trust her and this is starting to worry me ,annoy her. i dont want to lose her what can i do to make things better?

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (9 November 2006):

eddie agony auntBabyGirl is correct. I mean, what is the alternative to her going out? Should she cease to exist because you're not there. Life goes on and so it should. You have to figure why you're being jealous of her. Really, you wouldn't feel better, and neither would she for very long, if she sat waiting for you. IT would grow to resentment, especially if you voiced your concerns to her.

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