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writes:Ok, so im a 15 year old girl and i have a problem. i like 2 guys. the first one is so sweet and funny. i wont say love... but the strongest feelings i've ever had for a boy are for him.. its not just a little crush.Boy number 2 is amazing. although he's shy and hardly talks, we have so much in common and he gives me butterflys. if this was just a normal problem, id know what to do. but the thing is... boy number 1 is my best friends boyfriend. so i know nothing can ever happen between us, and i wouldnt want it to, because i love my friend too much (:but... now i feel like im using boy number 2 to get over him. although i have a genuine crush on boy number 2... its not as much as number 1.I dont want to lead on and use number 2. he means a lot to me.. but its been 1 year now... and im still not over boy number 1. i really dont want to hurt number 2... but i think he's the only one who can help me get over number 1...sorry for all the numbers. lolxxx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 March 2010):
Neither are right for you. Boy number 2 is just second best. Boy number 1 is untouchable. So neither boy is right for you. Continue to move on from both of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): You're only 15. You're still young, and have SOO much more time to meet new people and live your life. Don't get all mucked up over this dilemma.
Boy 1 is your BEST FRIEND'S boyfriend. Totally off limits, and it's VERY good of you to respect your best friend.
Boy 2 you legitly have feelings for.
There's your answer.
I say GO FOR IT ! Boy 2 might be a great guy .. you've got nothing to lose right? =]
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reader, Accountable +, writes (19 March 2010):
 That is a tough one.. Its horrible having feelings for someone you know you cant have, and kudos to you for respecting your friend and not trying to break up their relationship :)
As for boy number 2, you said you do have genuine feelings for him, so I don't think it would be a case of you just using him. If I were you I would gently test the waters with him - don't immediately jump into anything too serious, or promise him anything serious, but I don't see the harm in spending a bit more time with him and seeing where things go. You never know, you might find you end up with far stronger feelings for him than you ever had for number 1, but you won't know til you try! :)
Good luck!
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