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writes:OK so here's the thing I have been flirting with this guy for a long time and I wasn't sure if he liked me back. I know now that he does because he told me. He's been so sweet to me and makes me feel so special. The thing is I have been badly hurt in previous relationships (last one was 2 years ago) and am afraid of getting hurt again. However, I think I love him... The problem is he's gone home (ie out of the country) for 3 weeks and I am missing him terribly. It's hard to figure out what to do...I don't want to get hurt again so should I try to forget about him while he's gone? My stomach flips every time I see him and he makes me feel better just by talking to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey
Just an update on the above question. My guy is flying home tomorrow so will see him then. Am nervous. There has been a further development. I found out las week that a friend of mine also likes this guy, they have know eachother for years and nothing has ever happened but now that I am showing an interest in him she is almost marking her territory. Telling me that he is flirting with her and then she went as far as to tell me she thinks he's gay...which he's not am very confused now
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 February 2010):
But when he comes back, you'll fall for him again. 3 weeks isn't near enough time to get over someone, so the moment he comes back you'll fall for him again anyway. You will really regret not speaking to him and finding out what he feels. Yes, you have been hurt. But it would be a shame if you didn't do anything about this and then saw him move on. Sometimes you have to take a chance.
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