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*azdevil
writes:hey, so im 19 and my ex is 20. HE used to be a total partier until he met me.We dated for a year and we got really serious he introduced me to his whole family and i thought we were going great. We spent like 24/7 together, we lost our virginity together and we fought like normal couples so i thought everything was normal.He lied to me about how many exes he had and i forgave him cause he thought i wouldnt ever date him had he told me honestly. A month ago we broke up because he felt he needed to grow and mature into a person, and not have another person to worry about. So we broke up but we still saw each other and were normal and before he was leaving for his sisters wedding we even kissed. while he was on his vacation supposedly his facebook got hacked and the hacker was writing rude stuff about me, and posting really vulgar stuff. i responded angrly only to find out it wasnt him. So now he isnt even willing to talk to me. I called him once and he said he regreted being in such a serious relationship and that no one really wants us to be together.After that i have been in no contact with him. Will he come back to me? im just wondering whats going on. Im really confused and hurt. Does he still love me?.
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reader, tazdevil +, writes (30 January 2009):
tazdevil is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know, i know your right. but im just really hurting right now.. i feel like he doesnt care which is killing me inside even more. it feels like he didnt even value our relationship. i think thats what hurts the most.And your def, right about maturing and growing up independant from him. But why is he acting like such a jerk. he has his away messages saying stuff about how he doesnt have to prove anything to me.. well its not specified to me but it seems like its a big telling me off.. why is he being so rude?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): If he says he doesn't want to be in such a serious relationship, chances are he really means it. My advice is to try and grow into a more mature person yourself, independently from him. I know it hurts and I totally know how you feel, but you have to look after yourself and get over it. If i the meantime he came back and you were willing to forgive him, it's ok but if that didn't happen you will find somebody who appreciates you and wants to be with you. For now, give him his space, if you chase him, you'll have the opposite reaction to what you want. I wish you the best of luck, but please do things for yourself, see your mates and forget about him if you can. If you are meant to be, he'll come back.
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