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anonymous
writes:My guy friend likes me and he is unhappy in his marriage and says that his child is the only thing holding them together in marriage. I don't know how to help him and how to talk to him because I like him a lot and really don't want to come between him and his wife.. anyone suggestions? I have tried to forget about him but I can't I have known him about 6 years and we recently ran into each other in town and have been talking hit and miss ever since... should i stay away for the time being? Reply to this Question
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reader, MamaBear +, writes (19 March 2011):
Suggeston #1: keep moving on in your life. There are professional marriage counselors around for this couple to meet with and sort out their "problems". He is married. Period. As for the feeble excuse about staying together for a child, forget it. A child does not have that much Power. But, until he is not with a wife and child, he is not free for you to fill up your time Suggestion #2: find a young man who is free to be with you and one who does not come with drama and baggage. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): He's married so the answer is pretty clear. "YES" If you continue to see him and pursue anything then you will be considered a homewrecker. It doesn't matter if he's unhappy with the marriage or not. He is married. There are no exceptions.
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