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writes:Ok so ths is kind of hard to explain. im 22 and is engaged with two kids. One daughter adopted who is 18 months and my newborn son who is 8 weeks old. I love my fiance and my family to bits but we have had troubles and low points in the past especially when she was pregnant and her hormones were all over the place. My problem is that for a while now ive fancied this other girl who is 18. What makes it worse is that she is my finaces cousin. To me shes pretty, funny, smart and really easy to talk to. Im never going to cheat on my fiance and out my family at risk im not that kind of person i just want to know why im thinking about other people and how can i stop it to make sure that i am faithful? any help much appreciated
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Stay focus on your family. Talking to yourself would help kick in the conscience and awareness. If you are religious, start praying for help. If you are not religious, distance yourself from the object or source of becoming unfaithful.
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reader, witch-fire +, writes (3 January 2009):
 It's ok to find other people attractive. And as long as you don't act on your urges, it sounds like you're doing the right thing already.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): You got engaged and had kids young. But that is your fault. If you weren't ready, you both should have slowed down. Now you got a commitment to three people in your life. What could help is telling your girlfriend about your attraction to her cousin, it will give you more will power to not make a move if she knows.
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