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*tressedChick
writes: Going to have to put this briefly...I don't think i want to be with my fiance any more. Have felt this way for a long time. One of the main reasons i am still with him is our 1 year old daughter. Our families are one of the main problems. My mum doesn't like him as she finds him lazy around the house and silly with money. I have to say i agree to a certain extent. We have problems with his family as i don't let them take our daughter out as everyone apart from them feels she is unhappy with them. There is lots more to the story but..what do i do?
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reader, rcn +, writes (9 November 2007):
I agree, you don't love him, so be honest and let him go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): Just from what you have written, it sounds as if you do not have the kind of love for your fiance that would sustain a marriage. I understand being together for the kids, but your child is just one year and as I see it, it would be better for her to be in a home where the parents really loved each other in a "married" kind of way and where there weren't a few serious issues going into the relationship. Also, you deserve to be happier than that and so does your fiance. Good luck to you.
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