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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:What does this mean? does he still love me? does he want me back? My ex boyfriend and I. Were great together, so happy. But we split up 4months ago. cos he said he didn't want a relationship anymore. We got chatting and he told me to move on and be happy.He gets in touch again. and we get on great. We talk for hours and he came with his friend to visit me at work today and took me home.He's so sweet. Texts and calls me when he says he will and he says he misses me. Said I look cute. When he saw me today. He says he wants to come see my room on thursday, cos I redecorated it. Should I let him come?What is going on here? Does he still love me? Does he want me back? I don't wanna ask him anything and scare him off. Cos I still love him very much.We're both 21Thanks..x
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reader, mrg123 +, writes (2 August 2011):
 Well he could be just being friendly but I would tend to think he is currently in that zone where things are a bit blurry between being friendly and being something else. The most obvious question that springs to mind is 'why'? as in, why didnt he want a relationship anymore? What's changed that would make him want one?
He could, conceivably, be 'fishing' giving you signals and seeing what your response is. It seems that way to be honest, because he seems to be advancing levels of intimacy every time, ie, giving you a spontaneous compliment and now asking to see your room. Whether you do that is up to you.
Fish back, reciprocate and send some signals of your own, be cautious though and take your time, and don't get your hopes up too high, too fast. It seems like you want him back but make sure the issues that caused the split are resolved in the first place before you do. Good luck :)x
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